Remember or Forget?

I actually read the comment from Nick Collins blog but it actually came from Rowland and i wanted to comment on this quote as well

I tend to not like remembering bad stuff from the past. I mean, if it's bad why should you keep it in your mind? 

I agree with Rowland and Nick in this case. I think its important to forget the horrible things that happened in the past, or else it will haunt you for the rest of your life and you won't be able to move on. It will also make you a wiser person, so when something horrible happens again in your lifetime which is probable of happening.. I mean come on hardships are part of our life on this planet, and we must overcome them. That's why the bible says we will all have to go through many obstacles during are lifetime, I believe the reason we do have these horrible things happen to us everyday is so we can become stronger and learn. Dwelling will only cause more pain and tears. I also don't understand why the people of America celebrate 911 if it is a time of grief, a time when thousands of people were hurt emotionally and physically. The families that have their husband's and son's at war because of the cause of this horrible day. The families of the hardworking mothers and fathers who were at the scene of this disastrous moment working hard too support there families. Who were anxious too see their kids right after work, only to see death instead. I doubt any of these people will be out in the streets trying to remember what happened. They will of course remember their loved ones but if I were in that horrible situation I would just remember the happy life they lived instead of the tragic death they had. My suggestion is just move on people, it will prepare you for more things that will come.